I learned that you can not make someone love you. All you can do is to get a loved one . The rest ... dependent on others. I learned that no matter what you have in life, but who you are. I learned that you should break up with your loved ones warm words . Might be the last time you see them . I learned that you can keep for a long time after you said you can not . I learned that there are people who love you but do not know how to show it . I learned that no matter how much you suffer , the world will not stop because of your pain . I learned that if two people are fighting , does not mean they do not love you, but no arguing that there is no evidence that they love . I learned that your life can be changed in a few hours by people who do not know you. I learned that when you think you have nothing to give, when a friend calls you will find the strength to help . I learned that writing and speaking that can soothe sore soul . I learned that ........